Sage Advice from Lived Experience

Evan Wildstein on servant-leadership, hard experiences, and getting unstuck

Chad Prevost
Big Self
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2 min readJun 29, 2021

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We often talk about how the school of hard knocks can be a great teacher. Maybe the greatest teacher, if we really take good notes through the challenging experiences — especially when we need to own up what we can and cannot control.

Our nonprofiteer, Evan Wildstein has seen a thing or two. Through his two decades of experience, he has a wellspring of experience to draw from. These are but a few highlights from his contributions this year.

How Servant-Leadership Got Me Out of My Own Way

It took Evan almost 20 years in the workforce to realize he was doing no favors to himself and those around him by doing more. Save yourself the same struggles and read here now.

Why We’re Hard-Wired to Remember Bad Experiences

Experiences stick around, and it can be difficult to step away from feelings and emotions to focus. Are you a ruminator, too? Read here now.

How To Use Systems Thinking To Get Unstuck

If you often find yourself getting frustrated at things and saying “It is what it is,” then systems thinking can be a great utility for you. Read here now.

How Time and Experience Are Sage Teachers

Keep giving yourself time, even (and especially) when things are challenging. Know that you don’t know, and let that simmer. Whether you think you’re a visionary, or know what you don’t know, read here now.

Check out our daily contributions at Big Self. We’re here for you in life, leadership, learning, and love.

Chad and the Big Self Team

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Chad Prevost
Big Self

Big Self Podcast host. Ph.D., M.A., M.Div. Enneagram and LCP 360 certified practitioner. Leadership and purpose coaching. Join us at bigselfschool.com